My Thoughts on Blogging – Blogging Over A Decade

November 8, 2018 at 9:35 PM 6 comments

I bought my first house at age twenty-two. When I bought my second house at the ripe old age of twenty-seven I didn’t tell a soul other than my parents and my in-laws. I didn’t tell my brother, my friends or my co-workers. I didn’t want to sound like I was bragging and most importantly I had plenty of friends who were struggling to pay their rent and grocery bills. I wrote about my purchases on this blog, starting in 2006, but in the real world I remained quiet about my financial victories.

I was twenty-eight when I began to write here, which is a long cry from the year 2018 where I now sit and type this in my early forties. These days the Internet is full of boastful stories and social media is ripe with so called “friends” sharing their success stories.

In 2006 most bloggers didn’t start a blog to make money. Blogs were simply online journals that allowed us to connect with others who had similar ideas. Get Rich Slowly was the first personal finance blog I started to read and like most readers I connected to J.D. Roth because his stories were so “personal.” When J.D. sold Get Rich Slowly I stopped reading it.

Many of the new writers lacked soul in their posts. They wrote about the dollars and cents of saving, investing and earning, but they failed to highlight the human insight and psychology of money. The Internet is such a powerful bridge for bringing people together, but as we all know it can also disconnect us from the real world.

When I was a kid we only had one phone in the house. So when I wanted to talk to a friend I picked up the phone, waited for it to stop ringing, listened for the “hello” on the other end, asked my friend’s mom if my friend was at home and then finally started talking. If that is, they were actually home. When I graduated from college I would call my friends and chat with them on their cell phones. Now we send quiet text messages that can be ignored and misinterpreted.

When I was a kid I never would have dreamed about earning a living while sitting in my pajamas staring at a computer screen, yet I spent many days of my twelve year career doing just that. Waking up and writing software from the time I woke until the time I went to sleep nearly a full day later.

In this day and age we can earn money in ways that simply didn’t exist a few short decades ago. The invention of online advertising makes everyone believe they can type words into a computer and earn a healthy living and as a result there is a lot of dribble on the Internet. There was dribble before advertising but I suppose it’s authors had purer intentions.

I recently signed up for a newsletter on a personal finance blog that promised I would earn gobs of money from blogging. Every day I received an email with a link inside. That link sent me on a wild goose chase of pages that ultimately landed on an affiliate link for some product I could buy that might actually teach me how to earn money. I thought the first day or two might be a fluke, but nearly two weeks later I was still receiving emails with links that led to nothing more than affiliate links. Ugh.

Sure there was a lot of dribble before the invention of advertising, but back then it was just an every day Jane and Joe sharing his or her thoughts with the world. I felt like I knew the writers of many of those early PF blogs. Like I could meet them at one of J. Money’s happy hours, (which by the way I never made it to), and start chatting immediately about their kids, their lives, their careers and their savings.

A few years ago I stopped blogging. I began to accept sponsored posts and wrote book reviews but otherwise I stayed silent. To be honest I was out of ideas to write about. Readers stopped leaving comments and many of my favorite bloggers left the blogging landscape for similar reasons.

I attribute part of my financial success to writing this blog. I didn’t earn much money from it, but thinking and writing about the dollars and cents kept me focused on the prize of earning and saving. I started this blog as One Frugal Girl and ended it as One Millionaire.

The landscape of blogging has changed a lot in the last decade. These days I have to search a whole lot harder for quality content, but there are a lot of new faces coming on to the personal finance scene and a couple of older personalities are returning.

This blog felt like a book without a final chapter. When I started this blog I was searching for financial freedom. Just over a decade later I can say according to most people’s definitions, (not my own), I’ve already reached it.

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  • 1. Angela @ Tread Lightly Retire Early  |  November 14, 2018 at 10:30 AM

    I for one have been SO glad to see you back writing for yourself! I hope you will continue to do so if you want to – it’s like having an old friend resurface after a lot of years, except now, I have my own blog so I can be more than just the silent reader of your story that I was for so long.

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    • 2. One Frugal Girl  |  November 15, 2018 at 12:40 PM

      Awww shucks. Thanks for your kind words.

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  • 3. JCT  |  November 14, 2018 at 1:15 PM

    So glad to see you are back, I’ve missed your writing! Agree with Angela it is like having an old friend come back.

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    • 4. One Frugal Girl  |  November 15, 2018 at 12:42 PM

      Thanks for this comment. That’s so nice to read it warms my heart. Have you kept a subscription to my blog all this time? I just looked in feedly and was sad to see just how many of my favorite bloggers stopped writing over the years. I guess I didn’t realize how many had dropped off the Internet.

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      • 5. JCT  |  November 15, 2018 at 1:38 PM

        You’ve been on my feedly list for years – every now and then I’d click through to see if it just wasn’t updating as that has happened sometimes with other blogs (and when I do find that deleting and re-adding seems to fix it). Based on your writing I feel like if you were my neighbor we’d be best buds as we have similar opinions on finances, family, etc.

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        • 6. One Frugal Girl  |  November 16, 2018 at 12:36 PM

          I’m so glad you kept me on your list 😉 Sometimes I think the Internet can be such a horrible influence on humankind, but over the years I have found commenters/readers that feel like life long friends even though we’ve never met in person. It always feels so amazing to find people to connect to whether it’s right outside your front door or thousands of miles away. I’ve read all of your comments and I agree that we would be very good friends.

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