I love that you now use it. We kept a few special pieces in a box in the attic and I do plan to bring them out one day when my kids get older.

Hi Steveark, It’s funny, I had tons of programming books too, but those lost their appeal too. After twelve years on the job, the Internet had replaced my books. I could Google for anything I needed to know and retrieve the details within a few short clicks.

I’m with you on those paper plates! I wish I’d parted with our stuff much earlier.

There are definitely cultural differences in gifting as well. My dad’s side of the family all gave us money and most of my mom’s side of the family did too. The relatives and friends on my husband’s side gave us gifts. It’s great you stood your ground. As you can tell from this post I didn’t have the voice in my earlier years to speak up. I regret my silence, but I’ve definitely learned my lesson.

I completely agree, which is why I purge when I’m stressed! It’s a way for me to reach a zen like place again. It’s funny how we form such deep attachments to books. Of all the things we like to keep this one pops up time and time again.

Oh Annabel, thank you for commenting and leaving such a beautiful sentiment for me to ponder. The next time I feel conflicted about giving our stuff away I will think about your quote, “I’m depriving someone else of the pleasure of having them.” What a wonderful thought.

Clutter is a battle, and it’s often a battle with other people. I had an ongoing battle with my parents as they tried to perpetually pawn off old possessions, possessions from other relatives, and were shocked when I said no. Even when we moved offices as work: I purposely left my desk free of clutter, only to come in to find things piled on it.

Clutter is stress.