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		Comment on Will I Regret Quitting My Job to Be A Stay-At-Home Mom? by 91 club		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2026 14:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for sharing your thoughts! This post really resonated with me, as I&#039;ve been pondering the same decision. It’s comforting to know that many of us share similar fears and joys about becoming a stay-at-home mom. I appreciate your honesty and the insights you&#039;ve provided about the potential regrets versus the rewards. It gives me a lot to think about as I navigate my own path!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing your thoughts! This post really resonated with me, as I&#8217;ve been pondering the same decision. It’s comforting to know that many of us share similar fears and joys about becoming a stay-at-home mom. I appreciate your honesty and the insights you&#8217;ve provided about the potential regrets versus the rewards. It gives me a lot to think about as I navigate my own path!</p>
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		Comment on How To Haggle, Negotiate, and Make an Offer on eBay by abcdefg		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 03:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As an ebay seller who with several thousand sales under my belt, I simply say &quot;no, I don&#039;t haggle&quot; If the offer is ridiculously low, I immediately block the person who asked.

Why, might you ask?

Well, from a seller&#039;s perspective, particularly one that runs a small store, I do kind of agree with mmarple. In communications to sellers, eBay makes a big production of saying that you have the option to opt out of best offers, but then TURNS AROUND AND ENCOURAGES BUYERS TO MAKE OFFERS AFTER THEY HAVE VIEWED A LISTING, EVEN IF THERE IS NO OPTION. It&#039;s pretty insulting, and another in a loooong line of examples of treating sellers like garbage. 

What makes this extra annoying is that you as a buyer may think  you are eBay&#039;s customer, but you are not. We the sellers are eBay&#039;s customers. They make most of their money by collecting a very large fee (typically 10-13% out of each sale) from the sellers who use eBay as a platform to sell their wares. This is on top of subscription fees, promotion fees, and all kinds of other nickel and diming that is not visible to buyers, And the sellers paying those fees are already typically making very slim margins, usually 20% or less, BEFORE the fee, particularly if they are smaller sellers or sellers of specialty goods. 

Under this arrangement, all eBay&#039;s ONLY incentive is facilitating as many sales as possible. Why? Because ANY commission money they get is pure profit for virtually no work. Say a seller lists an item for $100. eBay doesn&#039;t care if you manage to hagglethe seller down, say, $10. Why? Because the way they look at it,  they just made $9 instead of $0 off a buyer who could save 50 cents by going to Amazon or Etsy. In the meantime, if the seller has to eat the remainder of the difference. So if the item cost  the seller $80, after eBay&#039;s $9 fee and your $10 discount, the seller is now making only a buck instead of $10 off the sale. They just lost 90% of their profit! And you know what eBay&#039;s attitude is? &quot;Not our problem. Don&#039;t like it? Dell elsewhere.&quot; 

The other thing I&#039;ve noticed about hagglers is that they are FAR, FAR more likely to complain, abuse the returns process, or engage in feedback extortion than folks who just pay the price. As a matter of fact, literally EVERY time I&#039;ve had a buyer return an empty box, a different item, or something they&#039;ve clearly damaged through misuse, it&#039;s been someone who first tried to haggle the price. I simply don&#039;t want to deal with that kind of buyer. 

You know why? Because eBay will still force me to refund those shady buyers, no matter what! As far as they are concerned, as long as there is a tracking number showing a package came back to me, they consider it proof that the item was returned. And oh, did I mention that, to add insult to injury,  I also have to pay the return postage for the privilege of receiving a fraudulent return!? 

And do you know the reason they do this? Because they don&#039;t want &quot;alienate&quot; bad buyers. Like I said, all they care about is generating on-platform sales and receiving their commission from their sellers. I literally was told this directly by a former executive at eBay!

So yeah, haggling is DEFINITELY a sore point.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an ebay seller who with several thousand sales under my belt, I simply say &#8220;no, I don&#8217;t haggle&#8221; If the offer is ridiculously low, I immediately block the person who asked.</p>
<p>Why, might you ask?</p>
<p>Well, from a seller&#8217;s perspective, particularly one that runs a small store, I do kind of agree with mmarple. In communications to sellers, eBay makes a big production of saying that you have the option to opt out of best offers, but then TURNS AROUND AND ENCOURAGES BUYERS TO MAKE OFFERS AFTER THEY HAVE VIEWED A LISTING, EVEN IF THERE IS NO OPTION. It&#8217;s pretty insulting, and another in a loooong line of examples of treating sellers like garbage. </p>
<p>What makes this extra annoying is that you as a buyer may think  you are eBay&#8217;s customer, but you are not. We the sellers are eBay&#8217;s customers. They make most of their money by collecting a very large fee (typically 10-13% out of each sale) from the sellers who use eBay as a platform to sell their wares. This is on top of subscription fees, promotion fees, and all kinds of other nickel and diming that is not visible to buyers, And the sellers paying those fees are already typically making very slim margins, usually 20% or less, BEFORE the fee, particularly if they are smaller sellers or sellers of specialty goods. </p>
<p>Under this arrangement, all eBay&#8217;s ONLY incentive is facilitating as many sales as possible. Why? Because ANY commission money they get is pure profit for virtually no work. Say a seller lists an item for $100. eBay doesn&#8217;t care if you manage to hagglethe seller down, say, $10. Why? Because the way they look at it,  they just made $9 instead of $0 off a buyer who could save 50 cents by going to Amazon or Etsy. In the meantime, if the seller has to eat the remainder of the difference. So if the item cost  the seller $80, after eBay&#8217;s $9 fee and your $10 discount, the seller is now making only a buck instead of $10 off the sale. They just lost 90% of their profit! And you know what eBay&#8217;s attitude is? &#8220;Not our problem. Don&#8217;t like it? Dell elsewhere.&#8221; </p>
<p>The other thing I&#8217;ve noticed about hagglers is that they are FAR, FAR more likely to complain, abuse the returns process, or engage in feedback extortion than folks who just pay the price. As a matter of fact, literally EVERY time I&#8217;ve had a buyer return an empty box, a different item, or something they&#8217;ve clearly damaged through misuse, it&#8217;s been someone who first tried to haggle the price. I simply don&#8217;t want to deal with that kind of buyer. </p>
<p>You know why? Because eBay will still force me to refund those shady buyers, no matter what! As far as they are concerned, as long as there is a tracking number showing a package came back to me, they consider it proof that the item was returned. And oh, did I mention that, to add insult to injury,  I also have to pay the return postage for the privilege of receiving a fraudulent return!? </p>
<p>And do you know the reason they do this? Because they don&#8217;t want &#8220;alienate&#8221; bad buyers. Like I said, all they care about is generating on-platform sales and receiving their commission from their sellers. I literally was told this directly by a former executive at eBay!</p>
<p>So yeah, haggling is DEFINITELY a sore point.</p>
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		Comment on Do You Tip House Cleaners? How Much to Tip? (Update 2023) by Belle		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 19:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/how-much-should-i-tip-for-a-house-cleaning/comment-page-7/#comment-1127317&quot;&gt;Radnor Otuxne&lt;/a&gt;.

Seems a bit low, especially given inflation and if there is more than one person completing the job. Commercial companies noawadays do 130-140 per person per hour.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/how-much-should-i-tip-for-a-house-cleaning/comment-page-7/#comment-1127317">Radnor Otuxne</a>.</p>
<p>Seems a bit low, especially given inflation and if there is more than one person completing the job. Commercial companies noawadays do 130-140 per person per hour.</p>
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		Comment on What is Swedish Death Cleaning: Decluttering Before You Die by iPad Pro vs. Anxiety &#8211; Exploring Tangents		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 21:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] 2020, I started my own version of Swedish Death Cleaning.  It took me a while to get my head around it.  I am still working on it, but two years later, I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		Comment on How to Deal with a Pot-Stirrer Who Loves to Stir Up Drama by Anonnymous		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 10:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thers girl at school who i was friends with and she has stirred so much drama she doesnt have any ftiends left. she desserves it tbh shes a cow]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thers girl at school who i was friends with and she has stirred so much drama she doesnt have any ftiends left. she desserves it tbh shes a cow</p>
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		Comment on The Perks of Part-Time Work by best		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for the useful information.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the useful information.</p>
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		Comment on Money Presents Opportunities You Aren&#8217;t Expecting by jojo		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 00:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Im most frugal than you. 6182690725]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im most frugal than you. 6182690725</p>
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		Comment on Mammogram Call Back Anxiety: Stories to Relieve Your Fears by Kathleen		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 09:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m 52 and I was called back during routine screening mammogram for the first time. They saw an asymmetry in one view only and said I needed to come back for additional mammogram and possible ultrasound.  The place where I got the screening could not schedule me for the diagnostic mammogram till end of Mar, which would have been 4 months away. I was not willing to wait that long, so I called around to different breast imaging places, and I found a place that could get me in 6 weeks later, which was the earliest date I could find after calling multiple places. My follow-up mammogram was not till after Thanksgiving and Christmas, so the worry and anxiety this caused really put a dark cloud over my holiday break. The day finally came for the follow-up mammogram, and I was physically sick with anxiety. They got me in fairly quickly and they took about 4 images of my right breast only using spot compression. After the tech took the images, she said I could go back to the waiting area to wait as the radiologist read my images. She said she would come out and let me know if I needed to do more images, or any other next steps the radiologist wanted. The waiting for the radiologist in the waiting area was horrible, and I could not stop shaking. In what seemed like forever the tech finally came out and asked me to come back with her to the imaging room where i had taken the mammogram. She said the radiologist would come in and let me know what next step where. About a minute later the radiologist walked in and sat in the chair next to me and told me he could not see the asymmetry seen on the screening mammogram in the additional views they just did, so it was just normal over lapping tissue making it look like there was an increased area of density. He said I did not need an ultrasound, and I could just come back in 1 year for a screening mammogram. I was so relieved, and I just broke down and cried on the drive home.  I had really believed after over a month of worrying about this that I had cancer, since my mother had died from stage 4 breast cancer.
So, if you get re called to do another mammogram, please know especially on the type of assemtry they saw in just one view a majority of time this is due to overlapping tissue and it&#039;s really common if you have dense breasts the radiologist said for this to happen.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m 52 and I was called back during routine screening mammogram for the first time. They saw an asymmetry in one view only and said I needed to come back for additional mammogram and possible ultrasound.  The place where I got the screening could not schedule me for the diagnostic mammogram till end of Mar, which would have been 4 months away. I was not willing to wait that long, so I called around to different breast imaging places, and I found a place that could get me in 6 weeks later, which was the earliest date I could find after calling multiple places. My follow-up mammogram was not till after Thanksgiving and Christmas, so the worry and anxiety this caused really put a dark cloud over my holiday break. The day finally came for the follow-up mammogram, and I was physically sick with anxiety. They got me in fairly quickly and they took about 4 images of my right breast only using spot compression. After the tech took the images, she said I could go back to the waiting area to wait as the radiologist read my images. She said she would come out and let me know if I needed to do more images, or any other next steps the radiologist wanted. The waiting for the radiologist in the waiting area was horrible, and I could not stop shaking. In what seemed like forever the tech finally came out and asked me to come back with her to the imaging room where i had taken the mammogram. She said the radiologist would come in and let me know what next step where. About a minute later the radiologist walked in and sat in the chair next to me and told me he could not see the asymmetry seen on the screening mammogram in the additional views they just did, so it was just normal over lapping tissue making it look like there was an increased area of density. He said I did not need an ultrasound, and I could just come back in 1 year for a screening mammogram. I was so relieved, and I just broke down and cried on the drive home.  I had really believed after over a month of worrying about this that I had cancer, since my mother had died from stage 4 breast cancer.<br />
So, if you get re called to do another mammogram, please know especially on the type of assemtry they saw in just one view a majority of time this is due to overlapping tissue and it&#8217;s really common if you have dense breasts the radiologist said for this to happen.</p>
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		Comment on Mammogram Call Back Anxiety: Stories to Relieve Your Fears by Maggie123		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 13:47:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Paying it forward on this old post because the comments kept me sane during my 3 week waiting period. 
I’m 42 and was called back after my screening for possible architectural distortion. Side note, I was called back last year for asymmetry which turned out to be a cyst. I just had my diagnostic mammogram and it turns out it was just overlapping tissue that flattened out on further compression. Non ultrasound was even needed. Yay! I did find out at the appointment that my TC score was 20.7 (high risk is anything over 20). They are recommending that I get yearly MRI’s along with mammogram and ultrasound. I am so relieved and  really grateful that I am being watched so carefully. Hang in there ladies!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paying it forward on this old post because the comments kept me sane during my 3 week waiting period.<br />
I’m 42 and was called back after my screening for possible architectural distortion. Side note, I was called back last year for asymmetry which turned out to be a cyst. I just had my diagnostic mammogram and it turns out it was just overlapping tissue that flattened out on further compression. Non ultrasound was even needed. Yay! I did find out at the appointment that my TC score was 20.7 (high risk is anything over 20). They are recommending that I get yearly MRI’s along with mammogram and ultrasound. I am so relieved and  really grateful that I am being watched so carefully. Hang in there ladies!</p>
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		Comment on What is a Beater Car? Should You Buy One? by milfy city		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 16:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great post! I&#039;ve always wondered about beater cars and whether they’re worth considering. Your breakdown of the pros and cons was really helpful. I’m thinking about getting one as a temporary option while I save for something more reliable. Thanks for the insights!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! I&#8217;ve always wondered about beater cars and whether they’re worth considering. Your breakdown of the pros and cons was really helpful. I’m thinking about getting one as a temporary option while I save for something more reliable. Thanks for the insights!</p>
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