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		By: One Frugal Girl		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 14:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/life-is-messy/comment-page-1/#comment-1107179&quot;&gt;She&#039;s FIRE&#039;d&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you. I do think the greatest moments of strength can come after horrible experiences. At least if I&#039;m lucky enough to get to the other side of them, which so far, thankfully, I always have!

I don&#039;t intend to stop writing about the messy stuff anytime soon. Sometimes I write posts I never publish, but most of the time I eventually hit that button and show my messes to the world!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/life-is-messy/comment-page-1/#comment-1107179">She&#8217;s FIRE&#8217;d</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you. I do think the greatest moments of strength can come after horrible experiences. At least if I&#8217;m lucky enough to get to the other side of them, which so far, thankfully, I always have!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t intend to stop writing about the messy stuff anytime soon. Sometimes I write posts I never publish, but most of the time I eventually hit that button and show my messes to the world!</p>
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		By: One Frugal Girl		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 14:33:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/life-is-messy/comment-page-1/#comment-1107162&quot;&gt;Revanche @ A Gai Shan Life&lt;/a&gt;.

I hadn&#039;t thought about oversharing as &quot;unloading unwanted information on an unwilling participant&quot; although that definition makes perfect sense. Hopefully readers don&#039;t feel like I&#039;m doing that.

I have been completely amazed by the number of people that reach out because they are experiencing a similar issue or problem in their lives. The more I write about the messes the better I feel, not only because it feels like therapy to me, but because I know it helps others too.

Thank you for listening to my ramblings for all of these years and for providing me with the inspiration to return to writing when I had given up. I really did miss it when I was gone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/life-is-messy/comment-page-1/#comment-1107162">Revanche @ A Gai Shan Life</a>.</p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t thought about oversharing as &#8220;unloading unwanted information on an unwilling participant&#8221; although that definition makes perfect sense. Hopefully readers don&#8217;t feel like I&#8217;m doing that.</p>
<p>I have been completely amazed by the number of people that reach out because they are experiencing a similar issue or problem in their lives. The more I write about the messes the better I feel, not only because it feels like therapy to me, but because I know it helps others too.</p>
<p>Thank you for listening to my ramblings for all of these years and for providing me with the inspiration to return to writing when I had given up. I really did miss it when I was gone.</p>
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		By: She's FIRE'd		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 21:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t think you&#039;re over-sharing.  I think you&#039;re being honest and vulnerable and it&#039;s one of the things I like best about your posts.  I think the difficult periods in our lives are the ones that shape us into strong, capable people.  Easy successes don&#039;t do that for us.

I think life is hard for most people at some point or other.  It&#039;s easy to envy someone&#039;s life on social media, because the hard stuff doesn&#039;t show.  I think the fact that you write about all of your life- the ups and downs, is important.  And it&#039;s interesting, so don&#039;t stop!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re over-sharing.  I think you&#8217;re being honest and vulnerable and it&#8217;s one of the things I like best about your posts.  I think the difficult periods in our lives are the ones that shape us into strong, capable people.  Easy successes don&#8217;t do that for us.</p>
<p>I think life is hard for most people at some point or other.  It&#8217;s easy to envy someone&#8217;s life on social media, because the hard stuff doesn&#8217;t show.  I think the fact that you write about all of your life- the ups and downs, is important.  And it&#8217;s interesting, so don&#8217;t stop!</p>
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		By: Revanche @ A Gai Shan Life		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 20:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Messiness is life. I think we humans tend to think (hope?) we can achieve some level of non-messy lives and the glossy bloggers/Instagrammers/Pinterest boards that are shiny perfection without the cracks of real life suck people into the false notion that that can happen. 

I don&#039;t read or follow those accounts since they can&#039;t add value or depth to my life. 

I appreciate getting to know people, WHOLE people with real lives and successes and challenges. From that perspective, I don&#039;t ever think you&#039;re oversharing. Oversharing implies, to me, that you&#039;re unloading unwanted information on an unwilling participant. I&#039;m here because I do what to know what&#039;s going on and how you truly are. 

While still staying anonymous, I&#039;ve never found that opening up about vulnerabilities was a bad things and in many cases I&#039;ve been surprised to hear that it was actually helpful for people to know they weren&#039;t going through hard things alone. I shouldn&#039;t be surprised, I have that feeling too!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Messiness is life. I think we humans tend to think (hope?) we can achieve some level of non-messy lives and the glossy bloggers/Instagrammers/Pinterest boards that are shiny perfection without the cracks of real life suck people into the false notion that that can happen. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t read or follow those accounts since they can&#8217;t add value or depth to my life. </p>
<p>I appreciate getting to know people, WHOLE people with real lives and successes and challenges. From that perspective, I don&#8217;t ever think you&#8217;re oversharing. Oversharing implies, to me, that you&#8217;re unloading unwanted information on an unwilling participant. I&#8217;m here because I do what to know what&#8217;s going on and how you truly are. </p>
<p>While still staying anonymous, I&#8217;ve never found that opening up about vulnerabilities was a bad things and in many cases I&#8217;ve been surprised to hear that it was actually helpful for people to know they weren&#8217;t going through hard things alone. I shouldn&#8217;t be surprised, I have that feeling too!</p>
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