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		By: One Frugal Girl		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2019 21:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/why-i-dont-use-the-phrase-we-cant-afford-that/comment-page-1/#comment-1008721&quot;&gt;Angela @ Tread Lightly Retire Early&lt;/a&gt;.

Now that I believe! I read your post about Santa and I could tell that you don&#039;t condone of white lies. I try my best to shed light on the facts so that my kids can begin to make their own decisions and craft their own ideas about the world. If you don&#039;t provide the facts they will create an alternative version of the truth for themselves.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/why-i-dont-use-the-phrase-we-cant-afford-that/comment-page-1/#comment-1008721">Angela @ Tread Lightly Retire Early</a>.</p>
<p>Now that I believe! I read your post about Santa and I could tell that you don&#8217;t condone of white lies. I try my best to shed light on the facts so that my kids can begin to make their own decisions and craft their own ideas about the world. If you don&#8217;t provide the facts they will create an alternative version of the truth for themselves.</p>
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		By: One Frugal Girl		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2019 21:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/why-i-dont-use-the-phrase-we-cant-afford-that/comment-page-1/#comment-1008912&quot;&gt;Diana E Sung&lt;/a&gt;.

We definitely teach our children to be &#039;good stewards of their resources.&#039; It&#039;s an extremely important factor in decision making for adults and children. I try to remember that I don&#039;t always need to have the right words in the moment. We often talk about saving and spending the next day after we&#039;ve had some time to further contemplate our decisions. If we spend our money we talk about whether or not that decision was wise. If we don&#039;t spend we talk about whether or not we regret that decision and what we would do the same or differently next time. Thanks for the comment!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.onefrugalgirl.com/why-i-dont-use-the-phrase-we-cant-afford-that/comment-page-1/#comment-1008912">Diana E Sung</a>.</p>
<p>We definitely teach our children to be &#8216;good stewards of their resources.&#8217; It&#8217;s an extremely important factor in decision making for adults and children. I try to remember that I don&#8217;t always need to have the right words in the moment. We often talk about saving and spending the next day after we&#8217;ve had some time to further contemplate our decisions. If we spend our money we talk about whether or not that decision was wise. If we don&#8217;t spend we talk about whether or not we regret that decision and what we would do the same or differently next time. Thanks for the comment!</p>
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		By: Diana E Sung		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a great approach.  I also have a 7 year old son obsessed with all things money/finance.  I don&#039;t always have a clear sense of the message I want to send him about this other than to become a good steward of his resources, but I try to be honest when he asks a question about how something works or why we don&#039;t buy something he &quot;wants&quot; in the moment because his friends have it.  Language of choice is empowering, though.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great approach.  I also have a 7 year old son obsessed with all things money/finance.  I don&#8217;t always have a clear sense of the message I want to send him about this other than to become a good steward of his resources, but I try to be honest when he asks a question about how something works or why we don&#8217;t buy something he &#8220;wants&#8221; in the moment because his friends have it.  Language of choice is empowering, though.</p>
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		By: Angela @ Tread Lightly Retire Early		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2019 16:59:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love this so much - for me it absolutely starts with refusing to lie to my son about anything, even if it seems small and the white lie would make things “easier.” My goal as a parent isn’t to make his life as easy as possible, but the best, kindest life possible.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this so much &#8211; for me it absolutely starts with refusing to lie to my son about anything, even if it seems small and the white lie would make things “easier.” My goal as a parent isn’t to make his life as easy as possible, but the best, kindest life possible.</p>
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