Some people live paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford to put aside a maternity fund. You were apparently able to put aside enough money to live comfortably for three months without anyone working. For some people, all the planning in the world can’t make up for the fact that there just isn’t enough money to put aside.

Great comment! I often think the same. When I see people driving very expensive cars I often think they must be broke beyond belief. In fact, many people I know who live in expensive houses and drive expensive cars are leveraged beyond belief and living paycheck to paycheck.

I’m sorry to hear about your situation. As you know from reading this blog I’ve had many disagreements with in-laws over the years. In this instances all you can do is ignore your relatives the best you can. Live your life and don’t feel guilty for a second for the things you have accomplished.

I’ve faced similar situations where people think that family members or pure luck have helped us get where we are. One younger family member in particular thought the exact same thing. We tried to explain how we reached our place in life, just as you did, but I’m not sure that it sunk in. When people see the nice house and car they definitely don’t think about the work it took to achieve them.

And that is why I married you!

Then again, it might all depend on your demeanor and the way you act, which I am sure is humble and sweet.