Do you think the guest of honor should open presents at his or her birthday party? At a recent birthday party quite a few people in the room thought the guest of honor, (a woman in her fifties), should open presents in front of her guests while the other half thought she should wait until she got home.
What do you think? When is it appropriate to open gifts and when is it appropriate not to? Are there rules for this type of thing? Is age a factor? Is the event type a factor? For example, a baby or wedding shower, versus a birthday?
Let me know what you think. Based on the thoughts of those in the room there seemed to be a generational divide, but I’m interested in hearing your ideas on this matter.
Slinky says
In general, open if requested by guests, or as you see fit. If opening later, make sure to thank people by card or in person.
Another situation to note: Sometimes not everyone will bring a gift. This happened at my graduation party. Some people brought a card or gift and others didn't. In that situation, I opened later so that no one felt bad for not bringing a gift. Since I wasn't expecting any, they didn't need to feel bad, but this way, it's all good.