I’m pretty level-headed. It takes quite a bit to stir me up. I tend to be the type to shout obscenities for a minute or two to release the anger and then let it all go.
I rarely hold a grudge. Usually, you have to commit multiple acts against me before I make a mental note of the wrongs you’ve caused.
I don’t cause a lot of drama. I’m risk and drama averse. Ask my friends, and they’ll tell you I’m about as stable as they come.
I’ve been dating (now married to) the same guy for fifteen years. I’ve lived in the same house for eleven and worked at the same company for twelve.
If you like to live with a lot of drama in your life, the odds are that you and I aren’t friends. I don’t have the energy or patience for it these days.
Some may say that makes me dull, but if that’s the title for someone who has their shit together, then I’ll rightly accept it.
People Who Stir Up Drama
Unfortunately, some extended family members love to stir up drama. I find the same people are always causing the same issues in my life, and I’m beyond the point of being sick and tired about it.
I can’t go into specific issues, but I can say that the drama revolves around one person. Most of the drama involves imaginary issues made up in that person’s mind. When confronted by their behavior, this person tells lies to further their cause. When that doesn’t work they pull out the victim card.
Due to other people in my life, I cannot completely ignore this person or write them out of my life. I’d love to hear suggestions and advice from ANYONE who reads this post.
If you’ve ever faced something similar, please leave a comment below. If nothing else, misery loves company 🙂